Yesterday while I was working, “Bein’ Green” by Kermit the Frog popped up on my random shuffle playlist. It’s quite a long list of songs, so it’s every once in a while that I hear it. “Bein’ Green” is the earliest memory I have of a song hitting me deep inside. Not that it made me emotional, but I could feel the song. Could I identify with it. Was inspired by it.
So yesterday, another kind of memory came to mind. Like most of us, I grew up learning the virtues of not “feeling sorry for yourself.” If someone was by themselves moping, someone else was saying, “Aw there they go, feeling sorry for themselves.” Or maybe a motivational speaker tells a group of kids that in times of struggle they have two choices: 1) “You can feel sorry for yourself, or 2) you can pull up your socks–or bootstraps or something–and get out there and…” This came to my mind when Kermit’s voice started crooning while I sanded a bumper. It made me wonder, “Well, what’s Kermit doing in this song then?”
Of course, feeling sorry for oneself is real and should be avoided. But maybe some of those times we accused someone of this (including ourselves), we simply mistook someone who was actually just sad. And were there times when we gave someone the same advice as the aforementioned motivational speaker, and we inadvertently told them that when they feel sad, to just bury it.
I like what Kermit does in his song. He identifies something in life that’s hard, acknowledges it, acknowledges how it feels, and looks to the positive reality of it. Instead of burying it, he deals with it.
It’s the same thing that I remember Jessie doing in Toy Story 2. Talk about a child’s song that hits us where it counts, anyone with a pulse was moved when her story is revealed with the help of Sarah McLauchlan’s powerful delivering of “When She Loved Me.” And like Kermit, Jessie lets it be known what she’s dealing with and allows herself to be sad. Her arc brings her to Kermit’s conclusion as well, though it’s through a story, not lyrics, that we see it happen.
Something tells me we were a lot better at this as children than we are as adults.
Congratulations Toy Story 2. This is your week.
And the Oscar goes to…
Best Actress: Holly Hunter as Helen/Elastigirl in Incredibles 2
Best Actor: Idris Elba and Dominic West as Fluke and Rudder in Finding Dory. They were a great pair of seals.
Best Quote: “For a guy with three hearts you’re not very nice.” – Ellen Degeneres as Dory in Finding Dory
My top 10 favourite Disney and/or Pixar original movie songs
- “One Little Slip” – Chicken Little
- “Into the Unknown” – Frozen II
- “Married Life” – Up
- “I Have a Dream” – Tangled
- “Put That Thing Back Where It Came From Or So Help Me” – Monsters Inc. (It’s very short, but it counts.)
- “Un Poco Loco” – Coco
- “How Far I’ll Go” – Moana
- “Immortals” – Big Hero 6
- “When She Loved Me” – Toy Story 2
- “Remember Me” – Coco
Though none of them can compare to “Bein’ Green.” Just sayin’.